• Pretty Sure Not a Bot@lemmy.world
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    6 months ago

    Doesn’t even have to be on the phone. Just watching something, and then just a slightest thought pups up, and I’m gone. 5min later fuck! I missed it again. Sometimes it takes me 2 hours to watch a 30 min show.

  • dangblingus@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    6 months ago

    Put your phone down. There is literally nothing on it that’s interesting or important. You just think you need it. Before 2007, what did you do with your hands?

  • kubica@kbin.social
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    6 months ago

    Well, you could pause until you know that you are ready to pay attention.

    Which means forgetting that you had it paused and maybe noticing 3 hours later.

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      6 months ago

      Get ready to unpause, but it has disconnected you due to inactivity. You shrug and go back to phone

    • Stamets@lemmy.worldOP
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      6 months ago

      It stuns me that I was so unaware I had ADHD for so long when shit like that is so relatable.

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          6 months ago

          But if your finding yourself constantly relating to such things, then it might be a good indicator to look into things more or talk to a good therapist

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            6 months ago

            Absolutely. It’s just important to point out that the symptoms of adhd are things that everyone experiences. It becomes a disorder with frequency, being unable to control it, and it significantly negatively impacting your life.

            Not too different from OCD in that aspect.

  • bstix@feddit.dk
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    6 months ago

    Passive media consumption is dead. It doesn’t matter to me if it’s the most interesting movie or series - I’d rather be doomscrolling or upvoting shitposts.

  • Fizz@lemmy.nz
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    6 months ago

    I rewind to far back. Skip to far forward and spoil the scene.

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    6 months ago

    I blame the skip duration. Yt default is 5s, when playing at 2.5x speed (set via an extension) that becomes effectively 2s. It’s perfect. If I need more I just press it again.

    I have jellyfin set up and (at least on the webbrowser) the default is 30s. Seriously? Why would anyone need 30s skipping? I had the same issue as you before - but only on jellyfin, with YouTube I almost always hit the exact moment I need.

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      5 months ago

      On YouTube desktop site you can use JKL for -10 pause/play +10 or left space right for -5 pause/play +5 respectively. As well as frame by frame with < > keys while paused.

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      6 months ago

      The other they while practicing piano I played white noise on my headphones so that I could barely hear the piano. It took all my attention to hear myself and I didn’t forget what I was playing halfway through the piece.