Hi Alice, thanks for posting to gonewild.
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Hamburger…but realistically if you(I) can’t feel the vibe shift when something isn’t right that’s pretty lame.
Lol Hamburger is a good one, I just use stop tbh 😂😜
I mean for some I guess that’s that point…is they don’t listen until the safe word, but I think I’d feel the vibe change before you would have to engage “stop” or hamburger 🍔
“Meatloaf” because I would do anything for love but I won’t do that.
Fan of HIMYM? 😜
No. I’ve never seen it. I read it somewhere and liked it. Is that where it’s from?
It’s from a Meatloaf song, I’d Do Anything for Love (But I Won’t Do That). It’s referenced in HIMYM though.
It’s funny because I’m really fucking vanilla. I’ve never had any need for a safe word of my own and most of the women I’ve been with never got even close to needing one, even when I tied them down and entertained them extensively. I was recently invited by a female friend that I’ve been having sexy conversations with and trying to convince to come out and play for about 15 years to come over and have sex with her while her husband watches and plays along. I’m down with that. I’ve had a couple of FFM and one FMF threesome relationships so I understand the dynamics. I suggested that she and I have a safe phrase that she could use to tell me that her husband is freaking out and it’s time for me to make an excuse and beat a hasty retreat. She said that there was no need. I expect that this is going to be an interesting first playdate.
@sunnysorbet haven’t needed more than a “stop” but have used “amber” (like the traffic signals) to say to be careful or that a limit was being approached.
Mango because when things go too far she makes a man go “oh-ooohhh”
It’s called a safe word n00b
No secrets. Keep it simple, keep it safe.
- red means stop (“I need a break”)
- yellow means slow down (“Let’s try something else?”)
- green means all clear (“Keep going!”)