I came across this recently and thought it was a super interesting and thorough examination of “the closet” or “coming out” of it.

  • Sombyr@lemmy.one
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    1 year ago

    I’m not sure if gay men have to deal with that more, or if it’s me specifically who’s weird for never having anybody do that to me when I mention my wife.

    The one time anything like that did come up, I was the one who brought it up and the dude was just like “Yeah, I knew you were into women before you even said anything. You’ve just got that vibe.”

    Point is somebody took the door off my closet.

    • Sekoia@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      1 year ago

      I’ve been told several times “ah yeah I had kinda guessed” as a bi dude. Literally no idea how you could tell, considering I look the same as before I figured myself out.