I’m male 16, living in Iran for clarification. (English is not my first language so sorry for any mistakes)

I have always struggled with my hair style and look, as I always cut my hair very short and uniform all around because of strict school dress code and policies.

But as I’m getting older I’m starting to want to improve myself and have better mental and physical health.

I’ve become self-conscious of face and looks after the pandemic specifically because I feel left out of many things compared to my peers. One of which is my hair style and cut.

I’m not sure how should I cut, style and maintain my hair. As I mentioned previously I always cut it short and uniform and I showered every 2-3 days, so I’d like to know how to maintain the hair.

But most importantly I don’t know what to tell my barber?

Sorry for the rant and long post.

  • Alireza@lemm.eeOP
    0·
    9 months ago

    I’m very anxious of how I would look and don’t know which style would fit me.

    • jmcs@discuss.tchncs.de
      0·
      9 months ago

      If it doesn’t fit you, you can either adjust it immediately if there’s still enough hair left, or it will grow in a couple of weeks if there’s not.

      • Alireza@lemm.eeOP
        0·
        9 months ago

        Couple of weeks of looking silly sounds like torture for a person with already low self esteem :)

        But I will try your advice if I didn’t find anything better.

        • amanneedsamaid@sopuli.xyzEnglish
          0·
          9 months ago

          Personally, I would try to realize others might respect you more for confident behavior like trying new hairstyles instead of ridicule you if the hairstyle isn’t the best for a few weeks.

          • Alireza@lemm.eeOP
            0·
            9 months ago

            Never thought of it that way. I try to never judge people based off appearance, but I know people around me do.