• Pons_Aelius@kbin.social
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    11 months ago

    The idea that People who are sexually attracted to each other cannot be friends is the height of immaturity for me.

    It shows that the person expressing it thinks that sexual attraction trumps all other human interactions.

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      11 months ago

      Or assume the default is sexual attraction. I’m not attracted to every woman that crosses my path, and it’s sexist to think I can’t see them as people, attraction or no attraction.

      I get there can be damage from past relationships, because people are crappy. However, there needs to be trust there.