Yet another simple question I’m surprised I haven’t asked yet, given my name.

Anyway, when it comes to kink (or otherwise, I don’t know what you vanilla types get up to at night. :P), would you classify yourself as a dominant, submissive or switch?

  • l_b_i@yiffit.net
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    9 months ago

    dunno. I generally only like stores from the sub’s point of view, and put myself in the sub role in images. I’d probably have to actually play to give a real answer though, so I’ll say tentative sub, maybe switch.

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      9 months ago

      I think @wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world really nailed it with their tl:dr.
      Stuff like that isn’t really so much a one-choice kind of thing, but really just a ton of grey areas in between.

      Things like this are very hard to express in words!

  • Awoos the Kinkwolf@yiffit.netOPM
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    9 months ago

    For me, it’s complicated. I guess I’d call myself a switch.

    I have a friend who calls me Master who I erp with, but honestly as of late I just wanna relax, not worry and let someone else take charge.

    Likewise, when looking at stuff online, I fantasize about being the sub rather than the dom.

    I also have no interest in stories about dominant men having huge harems of dry emotionless women. Blegh.

  • MaxmousePM@pawb.social
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    9 months ago

    I’ll give answering this a shot, then…i’m a switch. Hard to say which way I lean though, it all depends on the setting and the other part(y-ies).

    One of my main kinks is tickle torture. If you put someone in front of me who’s all submissive, helpless, and sensitive…I find myself easily slipping into a dominant role.
    However, I also really enjoy seeing myself in that role as well! Something about being unable to hold back, and be driven further and further into hysterics, just…feeling helpless and not in control, it’s really rather freeing in it’s own right.
    I have noticed that if I go too long without being able to express my submissive needs, I get into a pretty miserable mood, though.

    So it might be fair to say I am a switch, leaning Dominant…but there’s just something so freeing and relaxing about being a submissive, that I couldn’t go without it.

  • Littleoninside@yiffit.net
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    9 months ago

    I am a submissive. Even by non-sexual social interaction. I find verbal speach difficult to catch beginning and end of. I don’t see the sentences like I do on the forums. I suppose its only natural I be a submissive sexually.

    Though I am not one for bdsm. I find humiliation worth a try though. Light hearted teasing and then the take the leed. I love stories and erotica where the submissive is being stripped by the dominant. Slow very descriptive depictions of them being declothed.