Reading comments in different communities, I noticed that users hardly leave smilies. Why is that?

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  • grahamja@reddthat.com
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    8 months ago

    Everything after ascii art was a mistake. It feels childish to use emoticons, a lot of users here grew up on platforms that only had text and to see emoticons is jarring. Needing to use an image for emotional context is poor writing.

  • cerement@slrpnk.net
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    8 months ago

    second a few other comments, a lot of people conflating emoticons and emojis

    • emoticon: ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
    • emoji: 🤷
    • emoticon: =>^.^<=
    • emoji: 🐱
    • moitoi@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      8 months ago

      It’s understandable. Back in the old old days, these 😱 were often called emoticons. The reason was that the chat software that people used to automatically replaced ;-) by 😉. The menu was the same and the name of this menu was emoticon.

      One of the most famous example of this is MSN Messenger.

      People keep the habit to call them emoticons.

    • Empricorn@feddit.nl
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      8 months ago

      Very true. Also, I believe you forgot to escape the 2nd ^ symbol? I think it should look like this:

      =>\^.\^<=
      

      =>^.^<=

  • AzureInfinity@leminal.space
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    8 months ago

    I find them obnoxius, just like inserting animated gifs and meme responses. If used in serious context it makes the whole post look cringe, using them to replace words is fit only for smartphone troglodytes sending character-limited posts/SMS.

  • hemko@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    8 months ago

    For some reason emojis just feel out of the place here and reddit. I do use them in private chats and whatnot though

  • vexikron@lemmy.zip
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    8 months ago

    Because lemmy users tend to be tech literate millennials or older, who were using the internet before it became a widely popular and used thing.

    We remember a time before emojis. And to us, there is art, and more meaning in continuing the old ways of using textual symbols in clever ways to convey an emotion.

    Emojis are a cop out, a cheap and easy way to do the same, invented for a mass audience that didnt want to do any thinking or be clever in any kind of way and wanted it all handed to them.

    I realize this may sound silly but I will die on this hill: emojis are for children and the technically illiterate, they are an appropriation of a culture spawned by some gen x and mostly millennials when the curious of us forged our own way onto what was at one point in time a frontier of seemingly infinite possibility.

  • Captain Aggravated@sh.itjust.works
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    Why I personally don’t use emoji that often, especially on Lemmy, in no particular order:

    • I don’t feel the need to indicate emotion or facial expression as much as in a personal conversation.
    • combination of a high resolution monitor I’m sitting kind of far away from makes most of them look like nearly identical yellow circles.
    • There’s like nine variations of sticking tongue out. And a lot of them were decided by the Japanese so a thing that looks like it’s teasing officially means “I AM DISRESPECTFUL TO DIRT” so emoji are generators of misunderstanding. Especially when different systems render them differently so a face that looks scared on a Samsung might look angry on an Apple or like an office building on a PC.
    • I’m on a PC, typing on an actual keyboard. To insert an emoji, I have to move my hand to a mouse and navigate a menu. That menu isn’t provided by the system itself; it may or may not be provided by the text box itself, and they’re all different and have their own quirks. And I’m sick of learning them.
    • I just can’t help it, the habit some folks have of either replacing nouns with emoji aka "I went to the 🏜️ and crammed a 🌵 up my 🍑 and now it’s ⭕ " or even worse the MLM Hun tactic of typing the word outright then adding a corresponding emoji just feels childish and dumb to me.

    Call me an old man yelling at cloud if you want but simple shit like :) worked for conveying emotional tone or facial expression in a way that emoji just don’t. Like consider these two: 😀 😃 “Smiling face” and “Smiling face with big eyes.” Without them right next to each other, you probably wouldn’t realize the difference, so why are they both in the standard?

  • Scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech
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    8 months ago

    For me emoticons were something that started when all of the boomers came to Facebook. Floods and floods of useless emojis left and right. So now I feel weird using them, like I’m cheapening the platform while also acting like the people that ruined Facebook for me

    • Dave@lemmy.nz
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      8 months ago

      Are emojis considered emoticons? Call me old but I think this is an emoticon ;-) and this is an emoji 😉

    • Slow@lemmy.todayOP
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      8 months ago

      I have a negative attitude to standard emoticons built into Android and iOS. They don’t look good, they’re too many.

      I’m interested to know who uses emoticons depicting, for example, player rewind icons or rectangular shapes. Are there people who use these emoticons at least once a year?

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          8 months ago

          Hmm… Then wouldn’t it be logical on the part of mobile OS developers to make the extended set of emoticons hidden by default and enabled through system settings? Or make an extended set of smileys as an app that can be installed through the app directory?

          • thanks_shakey_snake@lemmy.ca
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            8 months ago

            Maybe! The MacOS emoji picker actually does this: You can choose which categories to include or omit, and set favorites… And not all of them are enabled by default. No reason phone keyboards couldn’t do the same thing. MacOS calls most of what we’d consider “emojis” to be one category though, lol… So that wouldn’t actually solve the problem. But it’s possible.

            Installing them like an app wouldn’t really be a thing though-- Emojis are part of Unicode, which means they’re essentially text characters. You wouldn’t want to omit those from the system entirely, because if they appear in text, you still want to be able to render them. Kind of like… You might not need (or want) a convenient way to write an “é,” but it’d be annoying if somebody wrote “the appetizers were good, but the entrée was just okay” and you saw “entr�e” because you didn’t have the right app installed.

            Personally, I’d rather have access to everything and just use search to find the one I want, but it might be nice to have the option to omit categories that you aren’t interested in.

  • chaorace@lemmy.sdf.org
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    8 months ago

    In-group signalling. One of the many microhabits you need to acquire in order to fit in with the local culture and nothing more. As usual, people make up reasons to justify why their cultural proclivities are objectively right but these are without exception completely post-hoc.