Love that we’re getting new voices joining our little circle :-)

Share some of the sexy or non-sexy naughty fun you’ve been up to!

  • It's Maddie!@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
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    8 months ago

    Had a nice spa day with my girlfriend, we went out to this pretty bougie place and got absolutely spoiled! Wonderful massage and had a steam sauna all to ourselves so we made good use of our privacy!

    Also went out shopping at a sex store nearby, got my very first collar, a cute pair of pink wrist cuffs, and some nipple clamps! I’m still thinking about getting mine pierced but the clamps will be super fun for now!

  • copymyjalopy@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
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    8 months ago

    Wife skipped her morning work out and had some fun with me instead. Not quite as exciting as the previous week but still good times all around.

  • demonologic@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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    8 months ago

    I wrote a bit of C code to turn my old PS4 controller into an improvised vibrator with different modes and everything, because why not. Wasn’t exactly the best vibrator ever, but it was funny (and I’m single so I takes what I can gets 😅)

      • demonologic@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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        8 months ago

        I’d die of embarrasment, it’s terrible code.

        I just did a couple of searches and found this example of how you can use SDL2 for the rumble, then found this post on SO on how you read button states, and then sort of banged those together until I could control the intensity and also make it “pulse”, but everything’s kind of stupidly done and deserves to be buried in an unmarked grave. And the controller really isn’t a very good vibrator, regardless of code quality 😆

        You can do a very simple one with just the stuff in the first link though, if you want to give it a whirl. I started off with just that and then ran it in a loop with watch and a bit of delay to get a pulsing effect

      • demonologic@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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        8 months ago

        Oh I’d never heard of that, that’s hilarious. The designers had to know what would happen, right?

        Heh, and this part at the end was… uh, relevant:

        Now, let me confess that this is not the first time that I’ve used a game component to, er, stimulate myself physically. Ever since they invented the whole rumble pack/vibrating technology in controllers, it’s been on my mind, and sometimes in my practice (fellow game girls, you know what I’m talking about). The thing is, though, it’s often frustrating since the vibrations are not nice and steady, but sporadic. Also I found it’s tough to actually play the game and use the controller in nasty ways at the same time.

        This is exactly why you need to take control of the controller, girl!

          • demonologic@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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            8 months ago

            Nerve endings are nerve endings, right? 🤷 Don’t some of penis-havers’ sex toys vibrate?

            But hey if you have a game controller you can go find out right now if it feels good or not, just need a C compiler 😀

            • dazedandconfused@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
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              8 months ago

              I have, in fact, reached very slow and intense orgasms by holding a vibrator against the head of my penis and focusing on the sensations of it. It’s very hot.

                • dazedandconfused@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
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                  8 months ago

                  Haha it’s much more subtle but the build up is awesome. I just have to keep my head in the right place. I think that kind of mindfulness might make me better at sex, too. I should start that up again.

  • dazedandconfused@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
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    8 months ago

    I was sick most of this week Tuesday night (onwards), sorry I wasn’t very active on conversation on here this week. But oh boy still got up to some stuff before I got sick:

    • After the very weird hotel hookup early Monday morning (see last week’s update), I was still clean and really felt like bottoming. Found a really sexy local vers/top guy who was into coming over. My height, a little leaner, better muscle, and damn handsome. Dude was also seriously packing - about my length but thicker. We had excellent chemistry, awesome kissing and foreplay, and he gave it to me good and deep. He was surprised at how well I can fit an enjoy – he’s not used to guys with such cavernous booties. He was so so close to driving me to that point of prostate orgasm that I’ve only reached playing solo with toys! I have his number; he would be happy to bottom for me any time, too :-) He also helped me by filming and taking some pics of us fucking, which was a first for me. Very hot.
    • I found out from a random grindr chat that there are more guys/couples in my apartment building that are into hooking up/“making friends”. Lucky me, Tuesday evening we had our belated holiday party
      • The mood was really fun! Folks made or brought some very tasty food and dessert. OMG Deborah’s cheesecake with the fruit top was just divine.
      • Met a bunch of gay couples, including the one that lives right below me! We traded numbers so they could let me know if things are too loud (or viice versa). In that couple, I like the younger one more – kinda twinky Asian guy ;-)
      • I met a lovely hetero couple which is moving in. We chatted a lot, they like to drink and have friends over, so hopefully they’ll help me make more friends, too.
      • Later I got a text from the older guy in the gay couple that lives below me: “I knew when I met you you looked familiar, but I couldn’t place until I saw you on Grindr again. :P now we’re definitely gonna be friends. Haha” 😈
    • Some sexy-ish texting and images with my boy Y in LA
    • Keeping in touch with R. We couldn’t meet since I was sick.