Continuing to increase the world population is absolutely nuts.

*I’m not interested in gradual natural declines from whatever factors. 2 max implemented now.

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    It was a flippant throwaway comment. I’m in my 40s, also married and also childless by choice. My partner and I being very similar to you.

    I wasn’t proving anything, just making a subtle joke about a parent effectively eliminating one of their children.

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      Got it, sorry I didn’t not pick up on the joke. I’ve been accused by my parents for being selfish that I don’t want kids and so I take things as “only young dumb people have these opinions” a bit too personally. Appreciate the explanation

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        8 months ago

        Oh no, no need to apologise it was a pretty weak joke… But solidarity, I’ve had that too.

        And getting asked “is everything ok?” as if we can’t have kids, rather than chose not to.

        And the emotional blackmail about no grandchildren.

        I think it really unnerves some folk.

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        8 months ago

        The opinion that childfree people must be young, immature, and selfish is shockingly common.

        Having children is a selfish choice as well–people have them because they want them. That’s selfish. It’s not wrong, but it’s not some altruistic deed, either.

        At least society is slowly coming around to the idea that having children is a choice and not a requirement.