Are you reading over what you’re writing?! You’ve come very close to telling a complete stranger on the internet that they’re acting as a sexual abuser does towards their kids. Do you know how fucked up that is? You literally know nothing about me, my family or my kids.

I’m a disaster relief worker, my partner is a teacher, we plant trees with our local community group, and volunteer at the soup kitchen. My kids help others, smile and laugh and dance and sing. They’re happy, they love to swim and play basketball and play with our dogs. They are incredible, empathetic, thoughtful and caring and you don’t even deserve to hear even those details about their lives.

Your willingness to judge so harshly based on one or two throwaway comments is beyond reprehensible. It calls to mind Elon Musk calling that cave diver a paedophile when he couldn’t get his way. I’m going to nuke my comments and you should delete yours to because nothing in this conversation has added anything of value to the world, it’s just brought more pain and vile hostility.