• Cosmic Cleric@lemmy.world
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    8 months ago

    I would consider it rude the hog the table

    and I consider it similarly rude to just walk up and tell someone “hurry up”.

    It’s a shared resource in limited supply.

    The rudeness would definitely be on the person hogging it.

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      8 months ago

      You are such a dipshit tool. The rudeness is on the person being rude, somehow such a simple concept is beyond you, because you’re twisting it around so forcefully.

      I get the impression that you’re a sorry incel type that goes out of their way to white knight women online. I bet dollars to doughnuts that if OP said “a lovely young man” instead of “lady” you’d be raging against the idea of asking to have someone’s seat. Foaming at the mouth that guys should leave people alone at tables they paid money to sit at.

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      8 months ago

      why do you believe a single person using the table to eat food from the establishment is “hogging” it, whereas two people using the table for a social meeting aren’t?

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        8 months ago

        whereas two people using the table for a social meeting aren’t?

        Why would you meet socially at a restaurant if you’re not going to eat, especially one that’s so busy that it’s hard to find seating?

        You would find somewhere else with more seating that doesn’t serve food if your only goal was to socially interact with each other.