• Seagoon_@aussie.zoneOP
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    4 months ago

    I’ve put the oven on, I’m making banana honey bread and roasting a chicken for dinner. :)

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    **Trigger Warning: corriander

    I’ve been out enjoying the lovely weather in the garden and am pleased to report that the late planting of corriander last year has successfully self-seeded and I now have a patch of baby corriander. There is also a bit of self-seeded lettuce popping up, and my bok-choy mustard hybrids are going well now the weather has cooled down.

    I’ve also planted some snow pea seeds and will cross my fingers they don’t get eaten before they manage to grow.

  • Cendana@aussie.zone
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    6.15am, sleepy wife in passenger seat.

    Halfway through a left turn, the guy behind me honks.

    So as a petty revenge, I did 40 in a 50 zone. Guy behind flashes headlights.

    Eventually the guy overtook us. My wife and I looked at the guy. Staring back at us was a possibly 19 year old green P Asian male in command of an MG HS.

  • Mittens_meow@aussie.zone
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    4 months ago

    Feeling depressed. The cold and dark sucks. Cost of living sucks. Need a holiday but can’t afford one. Going to take a week off work in a few months but it’s not the same as going somewhere and getting away from it all. Pet boarding would cost heaps so even cheap isn’t on the cards. Health is shite also (cfs etc) which makes it hard to plan and do stuff.

    Tax cuts sounded great til I got a land tax bill that had doubled because it’s how Dan andrew’s is paying back the Covid payout debts. (It had a nice letter with it to explain that). And I know there’s people who are in very very shit circumstances compared to me, so self compassion isn’t a thing.

    • StudSpud The Starchy@aussie.zone
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      If you got a land tax bill for the one property that you reside in (owner occupier/ppr), call the State Revenue Office and they can have it removed. You may need to provide proof it is the only property you own, and that you live in permanently, but they will explain that.

      I used to work for the State Revenue Office of Victoria, specifically collection land tax and payroll tax. Please contact them if this tax bill is for your PPR!

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        I moved in with fiancé so it’s subject to land tax now, it’s the only house I own. Relationship is a bit dicey atm, sadly. Can see why women get divorced around age 40-50.

  • prime_factor@aussie.zone
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    Very tempted to sell some of my stoncks, and buy a 2 bedroom older walk up unit. Still have room for the CGT taxable part of the sale to go into First home super, and it’s de-risking in case of a crash.

    There’s a tonne of them coming up for sale right now, and the mortgage + strata payments work out to be around the same as the rent.

  • wscholermann@aussie.zone
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    “You hear a lot of talk about the cartels in Mexico, but the truth is that the beaches are safe and all the surfers are safe, you just have to be alert, just as you would in any other city in the world,” said Otanez, whose group took part in a “paddle out” vigil for the three slain men over the weekend."

    Um no this particular area is not safe. Not even according to locals. To think otherwise is simply delusional. And this plays out statistically as well.

    “In 2021, Baja California had the second highest number of homicides in Mexico, accounting for nearly one out of 10 homicides nationwide.”

    It’s really irresponsible to encourage travel to the area.

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      Someone fucked around and found out. It’s a tragedy, but completely avoidable by not travelling to areas known for violent cartel activity.

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      I’ve previously looked into traveling to Tijuana, which is in the Baja California region. You’d think a big city right on the border of the US is safe but most reddit posts on the issue were saying don’t stay in the city after dark, travel to tourist areas only, so many precautions to take. Alert to the potential of violent crime is probably where I draw the line on travelling somewhere. If the likely worst thing that’s going to happen to me is being pickpocketed or my phone snatched out of my hand by a passing motorbike, I can deal with that.

  • Gibsonisafluffybutt@aussie.zone
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    Man, this original X-Men cartoon from the 90’s is seriously not for kids. Glad they’ve added new episodes this year but yeah it’s pretty intense.

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      I watched and loved it as a kid when it was released. Very happy to get more of it now with X-Men 97.

  • LowExperience2368@aussie.zone
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    Thank you all for the support yesterday. Reading your messages helped me feel so much better.

    Yesterday one of my friends drove half an hour to go for a walk with me (which is more than bar guy would’ve ever done). Then we went to the shops and tried on clothes. Afterwards, we met up with a mutual friend and her friends. The friends were so nice. They gave me really nice hugs, made me punch pillows, talked to me empathetically, bought me KFC because I hadn’t eaten all day, and then we drove to the beach. This experience has shown me that I can do so much better, as someone who hasn’t had a good time socially.

    Not getting closure in person and feeling the loss absolutely sucks. It’s going to be sad for a bit. He didn’t even fight for me! I had guys who I’d only been on a few dates with wanting to talk it out and try to problem solve. I should’ve left months ago at my first sign of doubt. But there’s nothing I can do now. Now I know that I need to listen to what my body is telling me, because maybe it isn’t all that shit. I shouldn’t have to cry 30+ times just in a month because that is not normal (yep I have a crying tally whoops).

    I also feel fucking relieved. Good riddance. I don’t have to beg for someone to show up for me anymore.

  • StudSpud The Starchy@aussie.zone
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    COVID nightmares are wild

    Response to Seagoon: I bought codral, not Sudafed, so that’s prolly why my nose is swollen. I should have bought Sudafed, or spoken to a chemist for the good shit (codeine)

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    4 months ago

    Movie review. Knight of Cups with Christian Bale.

    This movie is so beautiful nearly made me cry.

    5 hobbits

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    so you know that “add extra member” option on Netflix to add someone outside your houselhold…when you add them (and pay, and provide their email etc), do they log in via their email and my password? or do they get a login request email where they log in with their email, and then get asked to set a password…? asking for a very tech illierate sister in law living in another state…(as in not really able to forward any email on to me) - can’t find this on the website

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      We did this for my mother in law who previously used our account. They receive an email asking them to set their own password and then log in with their own credentials, you never need to share yours.

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    Woop, this time it seems to be my turn to have eaten something that overstayed its welcome. Not sure if it was the rice or the dal. Probably the dal, it’s lasted a week. Burping like crazy and feeling a few stabs in the gut. Usually my gut is fairly durable with old food, but it’s been a little weird lately… handling coffee well again? But back to the burping? Hmmm…

    E: I started using my new undated planner which has a “brain dump” section before every 7 days, to unload everything into a list and then assign a priority, and a date to do it by. Then I can pre-fill days in advance and each day has a “3 most important tasks” section to filter out the crucial items. I hope this will help with my life organisation, I think it works with my brain.