Free. All free to him. He said, “no”. He didn’t want them. I want a dna test more than ever now, and I’m the parent that birthed my son.

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      His grandmother has ruined his life and has robbed me of motherhood for nearly the past seven years. This is the final straw. All I want is dna on my kids to be added to ancestry.com after being kept from them for so long. I get that she didn’t want me to try to join the Army. She didn’t need to cut me out of my children’s lives. Now I have a Nintendo Wii thrown back at me today. If she isn’t happy with how I am now as an adult, how is her child rearing going to change to prevent that with my two kids? I wouldn’t be surprised if someone swapped my kids under her senile supervision in these past years. I seriously want dna kits taken on everyone in the family. If the kits don’t match to me, I’m suing.

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          Yes, I am. You don’t know me well enough to judge my mental capabilities and my ability to parent. I actually put this Wii away for about eight years to focus on my college education. I currently have earned a master’s degree in addition to bachelor’s degree in a STEM field. I also am certified to work with children in an educational setting. My fingerprints also clear with DOJ each year so I can continue to do that. That takes maturity. Attacking an internet stranger like you have done doesn’t take much maturity or education.

          Also, if you think you’re a better adult than anyone else on Lemmy, then answer this: When was the last time you gave blood? Did you even try to register as a bone marrow donor? Have you tried to enlist to serve your country? When was the last time you volunteered for an organization that works for the greater good? Have you ever had to file a CPS report for a child that told you he, or she, was being abused? Hey, beat me on this one: Have you adopted or fostered a child? I have yet to do that one.

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            Omg yes, you’re almost there 9/10, one of the best copy pasta contenders I’ve seen on Lemmy! Unhinged response, off topic statements, multiple paragraphs in length, claiming to be highly educated, and idk what the DOJ has to do with any of this but they like your fingers hell yeah! Just take away a bit of punctuation for that sweet run-on sentence feel and I’d give you a 10/10 but I’m still so proud of you 🫂

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              Your sarcasm doesn’t make you seem educated. I doubt you even know what copy pasta is. You’re the one unhinged. My comments don’t overuse exclamation marks, like a person who can’t control their emotions, while pairing it with angry sarcasm. If you act this way towards a stranger, I pity the people that are forced to tolerate you outside of the internet. I hope you seek professional help. Nothing I have posted or commented ever attacked you, or had anything to do with you. You’re just looking for a fight. I’m not.

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            I would say that our assessment of your stability comes from you dumping a bunch of baggage on internet strangers in a double checks - yep mildly interesting comm post. Seems like you’ve gone though a lot of shit in your life, and idk maybe you’re not neurotypical, but you need to slow the confession time down. All I came in this post with was the “mildly interesting” fact that your kid refused your wii. I thought the DNA comment in the body of the post was a joke. Now I’m waist deep in a telanovela that I did not tune in to. Use some discretion, or tell the whole story but maybe not here.

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              If you’re into censorship or novellas. Check out China, or Mexico. You seem to be accustomed to those sorts of things. I’m white (non-Chinese and non-Latina to make my point here). I don’t think we share the same culture where women are expected to be silent for strange men who demand it. Try moving to the Middle East, if that’s the culture you prefer. Lemmy allows free speech. I shared a post, and if you can’t handle it, advert your eyes from it. You have the freedom to censor what you view. Have you considered the v-chip for your TV, too?

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                I guess the real question is, why are you dumping all this in the mildlyinteresting sub? You’re lashing out at everyone who thought your post was a lot less dramatic than it is. We all see a post like this, and it sounds like it’s just a silly post about your kid having no interest in your wii. People make harmless jokes under the impression you were posting something harmless, and you go apeshit about it. This drama shit doesn’t belong here. Take it elsewhere.

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                  I’ll just say this…remember the username for later. She’s been around for awhile posting a ton of (perhaps fictional) personal information, though I think most of the posts were deleted.

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                tf did that come from?

                China and Mexico are better for Novellas?

                Least deranged US “I served my country” and “freeze peach” racist psycho.

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                  I’m not racist, but way to throw that out there for some upvotes. Lemmy loves to attack people that have been called racist, even when they aren’t. A lot of people on here have some kind of super hero complex where everyone is evil and bad, except them. My comment didn’t warrant an unhinged attack by you, though. Let me explain, China censors the internet. Mexico loves novellas. I can offer you neither of those things.

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                    See, it just kept getting better and better. You should ask yourself… How did they know, and practice some introspection.

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                And your posts continue to convince me that you’re unstable. I’m not sure if you know, but this is a light-hearted community and you’re up in here fighting people. It’s weird, and if you don’t believe me then check the downvotes. I’m not trying to be confrontational, I’m trying to clue you in to what’s going on.

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        You gotta slow waay down with your kids. Remember, their brains are still developing all the pathways they will use in life, but it takes time. If you’ve only recently been allowed with them, they are not going to understand any nuance of the situation immediately. They will in time and probably gladly accept anything you offer one day.

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        Sorry, I’m just here to make bad taste jokes and comment on cat pictures. I don’t know the first thing about parenting.

        I hope your kitties are doing well tho.

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        Instead of ancestry you should go to an actual doctor that does genetics. Even on Ancestry it states that it’s for entertainment purposes and can’t really be certain of lineage or medical conditions. They also sell data so there’s that.