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minus-squareBruhh@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up0·4 months agoI use to think a red flag was a telling sign that someone isn’t who they say they are, borderline psycho or have other underlying issues such as being abusive or manipulative.
minus-squareJax@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up0·4 months agoThat makes no sense though, so a green flag is ‘thing I like about you’ and a red flag is ‘you are a lying manipulative and abusive sociopath’?? I think this may just be your interpretation, I’m 30 and I’ve literally never heard it used to mean this.
I use to think a red flag was a telling sign that someone isn’t who they say they are, borderline psycho or have other underlying issues such as being abusive or manipulative.
That makes no sense though, so a green flag is ‘thing I like about you’ and a red flag is ‘you are a lying manipulative and abusive sociopath’??
I think this may just be your interpretation, I’m 30 and I’ve literally never heard it used to mean this.