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  • AbidanYre@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    My wife is friends with most of her office, and that’s a big fucking nope from me.

    Isn’t that what LinkedIn is for?

    I’m not big on social media, but I have a pretty firm separation between Facebook friends and LinkedIn contacts.

    • MagicShel@programming.dev
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      4 months ago

      You’d think, but the lines are blurred all the time for some. No matter how chummy I am with someone at work, I really don’t want to be one angry post away from an HR incident.

    • Flying Squid@lemmy.world
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      4 months ago

      When your boss does something like friend you on Facebook, what the fuck are you supposed to do? Tell them no and get on their bad side?

      • MagicShel@programming.dev
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        4 months ago

        I ignore the request and if they say something about it I just tell them I basically never go on it. Anything I post is private so from the outside it looks like an abandoned account. I hope.

            • Flying Squid@lemmy.world
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              4 months ago

              It’s definitely a quandary some people can be put in. “Do I friend my boss on Facebook and watch what I say on Facebook or do I pretend I don’t use Facebook and never accept and watch what I say so they don’t know I use it or do I turn them down and tell them I don’t want to friend them on Facebook?”

              • catloaf@lemm.ee
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                4 months ago

                You can put them in a restricted group that doesn’t really let them see anything.

                Or at least you could, I haven’t really used Facebook in years.

      • AbidanYre@lemmy.world
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        4 months ago

        Thankfully I’ve never run into that. But I think I’ve only made about two comments in the last five years and haven’t made a post in probably fifteen years.