• lobut@lemmy.caEnglish
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    3 days ago

    Not depression, but …

    I have a friend with a bit of “resting bitch face”. Someone screamed at her from across the street to “smile and be happy, it’s a great day!”

    She was like, I was happy …

    • x4740N@lemm.eeEnglish
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      3 days ago

      In the closet transfem person but as far as everyone is aware I look like a male to people

      I’ve been told to cheer up by a male person in public once so it can happen

    • pyre@lemmy.worldEnglish
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      3 days ago

      that’s just sexism. no one tells men to be happy when they walk around looking like someone shat in their cereal

      • Snowclone@lemmy.worldEnglish
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        3 days ago

        Uh not correct. Tall angry looking dudes get told all the time to ‘smile’.

        Of course, it’s also aimed at women for sexist reason, I got told to smile so many times as an angry looking dude. Then I’m walking around with my daughter and this full on 30 something grown ass adult man tells her to smile. I could have rage fisted him into the fucking sun at midnight, The pure burning hate that flooded my viens at that moment decreased my life span by 3 years. I could have poured it down his entire being. Instead I told him she’ll do whatever she wants with her face, and he can fuck off.

      • dethedrus@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
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        3 days ago

        Elderly old man with a resting bitch face here. People don’t say ‘cheer up’ to me, but have frequently asked my wife why I’m so angry.

      • anivia@lemmy.mlEnglish
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        3 days ago

        I am a man. I also have resting b1tch face. I get told to “smile” or “cheer up” on a weekly basis