I’ve heard it explained that “hey” used to be more of an urgent way to get someone’s attention, rather than a casual “hello” like it is now, so it sounded rude to some older folks.

  • drcobaltjedi@programming.devEnglish
    257·
    10 months ago

    A few years ago a very boomer gen-xer tried this on me and got very enraged when I would say “hey” instead of “hello {his name}”. At one point even threatened me.

    • afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.worldEnglish
      84·
      10 months ago

      I believe it. I have seen them melt down over the tinest thing. You can shorten my name, like pretty much every first name, and one of the old shits I used to work with would scream and yell about it.

      • Kiosade@lemmy.caEnglish
        203·
        10 months ago

        They’re saying the Gen X’er was acting like a Boomer. Which a lot of the older ones kind of are, from what I’ve noticed. They’re almost like “Boomer-lite” in their entitlement and other nasty attitudes.

        • Ramόn Sánchez @lemmy.worldEnglish
          418·
          10 months ago

          I still don’t understand what everyone has against boomers, let alone the forgotten generation. I mean, if entitlement and nasty behavior is an indication of what generation you’re talking to, I would argue it’s the zoomers and millennials that fit that description better than boomers or gen X.

          • drcobaltjedi@programming.devEnglish
            124·
            10 months ago

            I would argue it’s the zoomers and millennials that fit that description better than boomers or gen X.

            I don’t know man, I’ve never seen a zoomer yell at a cashier at a big store chain about the prices being too high or them not having something in stock. Boomers on the other hand, I have a number of times. Boomers are also the only people I’ve ever seen get called entitled by not only older generations, but also yonger ones too. Seriously, google “me generation” and see what pops up.

            • Ramόn Sánchez @lemmy.worldEnglish
              416·
              10 months ago

              So, your evidence is purely anecdotal based on your experience, check. My experience has been the complete opposite. 🤷🏻‍♂️

                • Ramόn Sánchez @lemmy.worldEnglish
                  316·
                  10 months ago

                  Then that’s how I would address it. I wouldn’t make a blanket statement about a whole generation simply based off of my experiences. That’s just silly.

                  • TopRamenBinLaden@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
                    103·
                    10 months ago

                    I would argue that the Zoomers and Millenials fit that description better

                    Isn’t that you from like 3 comments ago? You were trying to flip the blanket statement onto 2 whole generations based off of your experiences.