I agree that beauty is subjective but the reason feminists are so often stereotyped as ugly is mostly just pure misogyny… there’s nothing more complicated going on then some butthurt misogynists being butthurt. An interesting side effect is that not only is attraction subjective but it’s not purely physical (for nearly everyone)… the misogynist assholes call the feminist ugly as a baseless insult but they’re also less attracted to them because the feminist challenges their viewpoint.

This is also why, tragically, when loaded down with hormones in puberty, people often start viewing their friends as romantic interests - spending so many good memories with a friend attracts you to them and unfortunately may make the friendship untenable.

I’d really suggest more careful wording in the future because your question did seem like a troll at first.