About a week ago I asked a girl out and we went from a yes to her saying I was sexualizing her before the first date. I don’t know, I am really just dwelling on this too much. After a few bad experiences dating back to back. I finally decided to poke my head up and I got this.

Context - we had been chatting on and off, on the work shuttle bus for the last 3ish months. I asked her if I could take her out on a date if that was something she wanted. Initially she acted a little flattered and said yes and we exchanged numbers. The texts pick up the next day.

I don’t know why but this makes me feel really bad about myself. I know I didn’t do anything wrong but I don’t feel that way