About a week ago I asked a girl out and we went from a yes to her saying I was sexualizing her before the first date. I don’t know, I am really just dwelling on this too much. After a few bad experiences dating back to back. I finally decided to poke my head up and I got this.
Context - we had been chatting on and off, on the work shuttle bus for the last 3ish months. I asked her if I could take her out on a date if that was something she wanted. Initially she acted a little flattered and said yes and we exchanged numbers. The texts pick up the next day.
I don’t know why but this makes me feel really bad about myself. I know I didn’t do anything wrong but I don’t feel that way
I get what you are saying, I just feel like it doesn’t fully fit. Adventure buddy was originally her language and I expressly said I didn’t want a FWB situation. It just feels to me like it was okay for her to say no, but as soon as I did I became the bad person.
IDK