I hope you don’t take this the wrong way but realistically speaking, trans people aren’t the same as cis people, they are the opposite biological sex of what they present as and it is okay to not be attracted to that.
If you have an issue with that and see it as “hostile to trans acceptance”, it may reflect an internalized sense of entitlement to power over the choices others make, and maybe you should reconsider your values and realize that it’s okay for others to have preferences different from yours.
Have a good day!
The mental gymnastics you go through to avoid saying people who aren’t mentally healthy enough to feel comfortable as their birth sex and then rejecting people’s desire to have an individual preference about not dating them is the reason why people have a difficult time wanting to date them in the first place.
I hope you’re content with that realization. Most people feel uncomfortable talking to you because it’s like walking on eggshells even when it comes down to somethint as simple as wanting to draw a boundary about who we date.
It’s just very tiring listening to tunnel visioned rambling about the semantics of your definitions of various mental illnesses. I know your next response is going to be calling me a transphobe or a bigot, but at this point, I almost feel bad for you.
You deserve to hear the truth behind why people feel uncomfortable talking about this subject. I genuinely hope you learn to respect people’s opinions better instead of patronizing them for drawing a simple boundary and find happiness in life. Good day.